I'll preface this by saying I was leveling Scholar on an alt. My item level was 34 and I had not hit level 40 yet.
I queue for Cutter's Cry and notice I'm having a bit of latency. Nothing too crazy, just a teeny bit of teleporting a few feet every few seconds or so.
The pulls before the first boss go smoothly, so no issues. We start fighting the ant queen and I start using the kiting method. For those of you unfamiliar, back in the day, to increase the speed of the dungeon, all the adds were ignored and the healer was encouraged to run around the outside of the arena, kiting the adds so the large ant doesn't give the queen the health regeneration.
I start doing the kiting and notice everyone following me. I tell the to "Just focus on the boss" but notice them melting the adds really quickly. The boss dies and one of the DPS questions "Where did the tank go?"
I apologize and tell them that I was performing an old technique we used to use in that fight where the healer kites adds, but it looks like it isn't optimal anymore, so we're all good.
The tank rebuttals back to the DPS, "My job is emnity"
the two start getting prickly with each other, meanwhile, I just want to finish the dungeon and get my exp. The tank says he can't do his job when the healer is 600 feet away.
I just reiterate that it was an old method, but everything's good, trying my best to avoid any fights.
The tank then proceeds to pull three groups of mobs.
I throw an Adlo, pop whispering dawn, and have to begin spamming adlo and physic as the tank is melting. I have to throw out a swiftcast adlo, which despite critcally healing, isn't enough for me to throw a physic or Eos to embrace before the tank dies. Asking where were his heals and why I didn't rez.
I started to type that I was using both (count em, 2!) of the heals I have available on him, but he drops from the party.
I recently successfully solo healed The second half of the Nier dungeon without a SMN/RDM as backup, so if some sprout tank who doesn't manage cooldowns wants to consider me a bad healer, he's more than welcome.